A day at the beach, summer 2016 |
The folks in my neighbourhood have
often described this as a 'dog friendly community'. Which is great, as I have 2
big dogs who like to walk - a lot!
Lately, however, I've had a bit of a
challenge when we walk: an increasing number of neighbours are choosing to keep
their dogs off-leash. When that happens it inhibits my opportunity to walk
wherever the leash-less dogs are. (Some have charged and chased, in the extreme
a neighbour's dog was attacked while in her own yard, etc.) It's a problem: I
should not have to stop my walk or change my route out of fear of these loose
animals.
I am not shy about asking the
correlated humans to leash their dogs. And, if this truly were a dog-friendly
community, the dogs would be immediately restrained.
Unfortunately, many responses lately
has been negative. "Why should I?" and "Oh *dog's name* is fine" have become common replies. It's
disheartening, as it shows disrespect and disregard for everyone else. Contravention of by-laws notwithstanding, this shows that some people are only concerned with their own preference, rather than with the safety
and order of others in the neighbourhood.
Put another way: individualism
trumps community.
Obviously, this is not the case with everyone; but it's prevalent enough to recognize a trend. I think it sad that some people think about themselves as the be-all and end-all of any and every circumstance. Yet this mindset seems to be permeating all aspects of society.
The church is not exempt: if we are
not careful, we can end up being a group of folks who are seeking only to be
self-satisfied: "The church isn't meeting my needs" is a common
criticism. Yet, if we're open and honest in our self-reflection, that's not
what the purpose of church is meant to be. Church is not about what we can
personally attain; it's about how we can come together and contribute to the
world.
We are called to be "a communion of subjects, not a collection of objects" (as Thomas Berry states in "Evening
Thoughts", p. 17). We are intended to be the body of Christ (as
Paul writes in 1Cor 12 and Eph 4). As such, we are called to act in ways that
will be of benefit to the greater community, to continue to build up the whole
body of Christ, not just ourselves. To do this we must maintain and celebrate
the ways in which we can be community, looking out for the welfare of others
and trusting that they will look out for the welfare of us. We may not always
get our own way, but when the community improves, we all improve.
So from leashing a dog to praying
for one another to engaging in justice ministries to *enter your activity
here*, let us intentionally be the collective church: a community of
Christ-followers, loving and serving God through service to the world.
This is great LM! Obviously this is my DMIN focus, so I am in complete agreement. I think we would do well in the church to fully claim the radical, and counter-cultural, notion of common life and common faith. This blog is well needed. Way to go!
ReplyDeleteI appreciate the feedback Kyle. This may become a bit of a series... I've been doing much thinking (and praying!) about what it means to be a community - in varied and various roles.
DeleteKeep up with the theme. Individualism vs communalism and the balance we need between these two to engage individuals into a big enough collective that can have real influence in the world fascinates me.
ReplyDeleteThanks Lesley - I appreciate the encouragement
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